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#30 Blog. Where AI Falls Short: The Importance of Listening and Psychological Safety Inspired by “The Rabbit Listened”

 

Early in my career, I received feedback that I was a "good listener,” which initially frustrated me, almost as if they were saying, "All you do is listen.” However, I’ve come to realize that being a good listener is one of the most foundational and valuable skills for anyone working with people. This understanding deepened when I read The Rabbit Listened to my boys. A truly remarkable children’s book can reflect your own life, and this one certainly does.


Through Tylor's experience with his fallen building blocks, the story highlights different approaches to support and emphasizes the importance of listening and being present during emotional distress. It shows how simply being there for others helps them process their feelings and find their own solutions. This narrative underscores the value of truly listening—not just hearing—in both leadership and life, while also emphasizing the role of psychological safety in fostering open communication.


In a world where AI often steps in, effective leadership still relies on our human ability to listen deeply. Listening encompasses more than just hearing; it’s about understanding, building connections, and nurturing a culture of open communication. Inspired by The Rabbit Listened, essential listening techniques Google’s case study, let’s see how you can sharpen your listening skills to make a greater impact.


Where AI Falls Short: The Importance of Listening and Psychological Safety Inspired by “The Rabbit Listened”
Where AI Falls Short: The Importance of Listening and Psychological Safety Inspired by “The Rabbit Listened”
 

Listening for Understanding: Three Key Tools

Active Listening

Active listening goes beyond simply hearing what someone says. It involves fully engaging with the speaker, maintaining eye contact, and showing genuine interest. In The Rabbit Listened, the rabbit doesn't rush to offer advice or fix the problem but instead stays close, patiently listening as the child, Taylor, works through emotions after the blocks fall. This approach not only makes the speaker feel valued but also fosters trust and openness.


Reflective Listening

Reflective listening encourages leaders to paraphrase or summarize what the speaker has said. This technique demonstrates understanding and allows the speaker to clarify their thoughts. In the story, the rabbit doesn’t reflect on emotions by offering words or interpretations but reflects understanding by staying present, without trying to fix anything or offer solutions. This allows Taylor to process feelings and find their own way forward. Leaders can use reflective listening by restating key points or simply acknowledging emotions, gaining deeper insights into their team’s needs.


Empathetic Listening

Empathetic listening involves tuning into the speaker’s emotions and responding with empathy. The rabbit in the story exemplifies empathetic listening by staying by Taylor’s side, without judgment or interruption, allowing him to fully express his feelings. This kind of listening helps create a safe, nonjudgmental space, enabling team members to feel understood. Leaders who practice empathetic listening can strengthen relationships and build trust, encouraging open dialogue in the workplace.


The Google Project Aristotle Example

Google's Project Aristotle highlights the importance of psychological safety within teams, which is closely tied to effective listening. The research showed that teams perform best when members feel safe to take risks and express their thoughts without fear of judgment. Listening actively and empathetically fosters this sense of safety, encouraging open communication and collaboration. By prioritizing listening, you can create an environment where team members are more likely to share their ideas and concerns, ultimately driving better performance.


Embracing the Rabbit’s Wisdom

The Rabbit Listened illustrates that the best response can often be to listen without rushing to conclusions or offering quick solutions. Think back to a time when you hastily jumped in with your own solution. We can learn from the rabbit by giving teams the space to express themselves fully, which fosters psychological safety. This approach not only validates their feelings but also paves the way for collaborative problem-solving. When team members feel safe to share their thoughts without fear of judgment, they are more likely to engage in open dialogue and contribute innovative ideas.


 

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