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Writer's pictureHana Chen Zacay

#17 Blog. You Are Not Alone: Managing for the First Time? Don’t Shoulder It All Alone – Join a Peer Group!

Updated: Jul 16

 

Stepping into a management role for the first time is a significant milestone in your career. It’s a journey filled with excitement, opportunities, and challenges. Many first-time managers feel a mix of anticipation and apprehension, questioning their ability to lead and make impactful decisions.

If you're feeling this way, it's important to know- you are not alone!

I can help you create a peer group where you can lean on!!


The Initial Overwhelm

Many new managers feel overwhelmed in their initial days. The transition from being a peer to a leader can be daunting, and the challenge is twofold. First, entering a new role is never easy. Second, becoming a manager adds another layer of complexity. Wearing these two new hats simultaneously requires practice, but first, it requires acknowledgment. However, you should know that whatever concerns you might have—worrying about earning respect, making the right decisions, and effectively guiding your team—are entirely normal.


One of my favorites for growth and development will always be Peer Group Learning. A peer group is a collection of individuals who share similar characteristics, interests, or experiences and come together to provide mutual support, share knowledge, and offer feedback.  A peer group typically consists of managers or leaders at similar stages in their careers who meet regularly to discuss challenges, exchange ideas, and support each other's professional growth.


I’ve been running peer groups for first-time managers for years now, and I've identified some common challenges and strategies to navigate them that I would like to share with you all.


 

Common Challenges First-Time Managers Face


1.    Mindset Shifting: Understanding the necessary mindset shift is crucial for transitioning from a peer to a leader. This shift in perspective is essential for changing your behavior and approach to management.

2.    Building Authority: Establishing yourself as a leader while maintaining good relationships with your team can be challenging. It's important to gain respect and trust without compromising your connection with the team.

3.    Decision-Making: Making choices that impact both the team and the organization can be intimidating. The pressure to make the right decisions can weigh heavily on new managers.

4.    Time Management: Balancing managerial duties with other responsibilities is a common challenge. Effective time management is key to handling the increased workload and responsibilities.

5.    Conflict Resolution: Navigating and resolving conflicts within the team requires skill and tact. It's important to address issues promptly and fairly to maintain a positive team dynamic.

6.    Performance Management: Providing constructive feedback and managing team performance is essential for achieving team goals. New managers need to learn how to motivate and develop their team members effectively.


 

Strategies to Navigate Your New Role


1.    Seek Support and Mentorship:

  • Find a Mentor: Look for experienced managers within your organization or industry who can offer guidance and share their experiences. Sometimes an external consultant can be an option as well.

  • Peer Support: Connect with other first-time managers. Sharing experiences can provide reassurance and practical advice. Your HR can provide the right space by creating an internal leadership development program- I can help with that one 😊

2.    Communicate Openly:

  • With Your Team: Be transparent about your new role and open to feedback. This helps build trust and respect. Sharing vulnerability, however, doesn’t mean you need to share everything.

  • With Your Manager: Find the best way to regularly update your manager on your progress and seek their advice when needed.

3.    Set Realistic Expectations:

  • For Yourself: Understand that you won’t have all the answers immediately. Give yourself the grace to learn and grow into the role. Even if it’s the same team you were part of for years, you are now wearing a different hat.

  • For Your Team: Clearly communicate your expectations and provide the support they need to meet them. Ask them- what do you need from me to succeed?

4.    Work on your Emotional Intelligence:

  • Self-Awareness: Reflect on your strengths and areas for improvement. Try to get different angles from people you trust.

  • Empathy: Understand and address the needs and concerns of your team members. Really Care for them!

5.    Build Strong Relationships:

  • Team Bonding: Foster a positive team culture through regular team-building activities and open communication.

  • Networking: Build connections within and outside your organization to expand your support system.

6.    Focus on Early Wins:

  • Set Achievable Goals: Identify and work towards quick wins to build confidence and demonstrate your capability.

  • Celebrate Successes: Recognize and celebrate the achievements of your team to boost morale and motivation.


 

Remember, Growth Takes Time

Transitioning into a managerial role is a process that involves continuous learning and adaptation. Mistakes are part of this journey and provide valuable learning opportunities. Every experienced manager was once a first-time manager, learning the ropes just like you.

Becoming a first-time manager is a rewarding yet challenging journey.


By seeking support, embracing learning opportunities, and maintaining open communication, you can navigate this transition successfully. Remember, you are not alone. There is a community of managers who have walked this path and are ready to support you. Embrace the journey, and know that with time and effort, you will grow into a confident and effective leader.


 

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